One of the hardest parts of working in the Behavior field is
confronting the question “so do you think I should put him down?”
When an owner arrives for their appointment, we realize that
many are coming as their last resort. They’ve tried what worked for their last
dog, suggestions from friends, spent time with trainers, spoken to their
veterinarian and now they’re taking one last shot with us. From each past
effort there’s been peaks of hope and plummets of despair, and now they’re
frustrated, angry, sad, lost and hopefully still interested in trying again in
a new direction. The owner who has a dangerous dog is the most likely to ask “Is
this fixable? Am I a bad person for giving up? Should I give up? Would it be
better if I find him a new home?”
These are all valid questions that we take seriously. We
never make the decision for our client. Instead we give a clear picture of the
dog that they have in order to determine if they’re willing to commit to trying
again.
The first step is to explain what is concerning in the
situation. A large dog is inherently more dangerous than a small one due to the
amount of damage that can be done. Does the dog have readily identifiable
triggers that we can work on, or is it more generalized? Is the behavior based
in fear or confidence? Has the pet hurt someone before? Where does the family reside
and how high is the threat to the public? What has the owner tried before? Is
the owner’s home life a problem (elderly people who can’t get away, exposure to
children, etc.)? Can the dog be safely managed by the owner? Is the human-animal
bond broken? Is owner willing to make the changes and sacrifices necessary to help
their pet while providing safety for their family and the pubic? That’s a lot
of questions, but all of them are important to give the owner a prognosis for
the issue at hand.
With this information in mind, our job is to support the
owner as they wade through the pros and cons, feeling and fears to get to a
decision. As a service, we support owners in the decision to euthanize their
pet if it poses a danger. Some would find euthanasia of an otherwise healthy
animal repugnant. The thing is - the pet isn’t perfectly healthy. Mentally,
this pet is not doing well. Many of these dogs have equal parts of nature and
nurture creating a perfect storm for bad things. The owner may not be the right
person to take on this project, and it’s our hope that if they do decide to
euthanize then at least they may avoid making the same mistakes with future
pets. Is it fair for the dog? Probably not, but warehousing the pet for the
rest of its life isn’t exactly a kind fate either. Rehoming is typically
irresponsible in these situations. As much as I would love to have the perfect
owner pop up to whisk the dog away, finding someone with the knowledge and
ability to adopt an aggressive dog is like winning the lottery. We’ve seen
rescues which adopt out dogs with a history of aggression problems and it
creates a rehoming nightmare. The dog is bounced from home to home, breaking
hearts (of the owners and pet) until someone decides to pulls the plug.
Euthanasia is permanent. Ending a life is never easy for any
veterinarian, and we’re no exception. As it is, our service euthanizes a dog
about every 6 months. It’s our hope that owners keep this information in mind
when deciding to adopt a pet. Do your research, socialize and train your dog, and if things seem to be going badly, the
best way to avoid euthanasia is to seek out professional help early.
Thanks for writing so compassionately and pragmatically about one of the hardest questions behaviour professionals get asked. Definitely sharing.
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